Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Excluding when we intend to Include

I got a post-card in the mail today.  Nice graphics, well laid-out, good information.  But I got annoyed when I saw the tagline for this new church it read, “No Perfect People Allowed”

Okay.  I get it.

It’s supposed to make me feel welcome because I know of my imperfections and for too many people the church is a place where we have to put on a “show” we have to wear a “mask” that says “everything’s okay even when everything’s not okay.”

I get it, I really do.  But it also drives me crazy.

I’ve attended churches where they tell me, unapologetically, that “neckties and nylons are not allowed.”  Again, I get it, they’re trying to be witty and tell me that I can dress casually (whatever that means anymore) when I attend this church.

But what if wearing a necktie is who I am?

What if my wife wears nylons? 

Will I be cast out of the church and told I don’t belong?

I heard a radio ad the other day for a restaurant I’ve been to once or twice (they have really good food but aren’t in a neighborhood I spend much time in and their parking can be a challenge, but I digress) and I loved their tagline …

“Where tie-dyes and neckties unite”

How refreshing.  They understand that some people will dress up, others won’t. Some are conservative and others are liberal (if labels must be used).

I love that tagline.  If it weren’t already used by a restaurant in town I’d use it for our church because I think this is exactly what Christ intended for his followers.  Not that we draw lines that divide us, but that we find the common ground and come together.